Living Funerals
Living funerals are becoming more popular as a way to celebrate someone's life while they're still alive.
Attitudes around death and how we approach dying are fast changing. It’s no longer seen as a taboo subject, or a subject to be avoided. So, it’s no wonder that living funerals – sometimes referred to as fun-erals or pre-funerals – are becoming an increasingly popular way to celebrate someone’s life.
Although they’re often held for people who are terminally ill, anyone can choose to have a living funeral ceremony.
The living funeral tends to be an upbeat service which is celebratory rather than sad and mournful.
As your celebrant I would guide you through the process of organising your ceremony, and together we can create the celebration you want.
"Live, Laugh, Love"
Live well, laugh often, and love with all of your heart.
Cherish the moments, before they depart.
For life is too short, and time is too swift,
To not give your loved ones the best of your gift.”
Author Unknown
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Frequently Asked Questions - Living Funerals
How does a living funeral work?
A living funeral is much like any other kind of funeral service. The main difference is that the person who is being remembered is still alive and they attend the ceremony too.
There are no set rules about living funerals – they can follow any structure and include anything you want. Sometimes they're serious occasions where people wear dark clothes and share memories of the person as if they had already died. Other times, they're like a big party, where friends and family gather to celebrate the person's life.
Why do people choose living funerals?
Often, people choose to have a living funeral because they know they're going to die soon. They may have been diagnosed with a terminal illness – or they might simply have a feeling that they don't have long left.
For these people, a living funeral is a chance for one last celebration with friends and family. They can listen to their favourite songs, share treasured memories and reflect on the life they've lived. Not only does it provide those attending with a space to share touching words, but it helps the person who is nearing the end of their life regain some control about their end-of-life arrangements. It allows them to confront death on their own terms. This can provide a valuable sense of closure, both for the person who is dying and the other people at the funeral.
For some they would like to plan and pay for their own funeral, so their family don’t have to worry about it after they have died. For example, choosing a direct cremation isn’t only a cost-effective alternative to a traditional funeral, but it also allows loved ones to remember you in their own way once you have gone.